Many guys want to know how to make eye contact with women, and some of the eye contact flirting signs to look out for when they interact with girls. Whether you are out in public or in a private space, there are surely some huge clues to look out for in the attraction process.
In this article I will give some in-depth analysis on how to make eye contact with the ladies to cause attraction and to maintain attraction.
Eye contact can be used to cause attraction and to maintain it. This is something that causes a bit of confusion with guys. And women do give signs of attraction, you just need to know the signs.
Women make eye contact with you to sense what your vibe and personality is like. Maintaining eye contact is important and can say a lot about your confidence. They also show your experience, and intention. This is especially true when it comes to women. They have very good intuition skills. She can really sense if you are who you portray yourself to be.
Your eyes are a great way to show them what they want to see.
Does Eye Contact Always Mean Attraction?
Eye contact can be a huge indicator of interest, but it depends on a few things:
Your ability to pick up on the signs. Eye contact is a very delicate and complex thing. With time and experience one can become much better at sensing attraction through eye contact.
There is a very fine line between a woman just looking at you casually, than her actually liking you. A split second longer eye contact can give her away that she is interested. However, some guys can’t pick up on it.
Sometimes shy girls can’t make eye contact. Keep in mind that some types of girls have a hard time making and keeping eye contact. Some girls I dated told me after they had a huge crush on me. They would barely keep prolonged eye contact with me when we first saw each other. Sometimes when a girl likes you a lot, she will actually try to avoid eye contact with you. She might be shy or intimidated by you. Keep in mind that these are very rare situations and only with extremely shy girls. Like author Mark Manson wrote:
‘Put simply, if someone is intentionally making an effort to NOT look at you, they’re not interested. It’s the anti-intimacy. The non-verbal cue for “Give it up”…’
The general opinion on this topic seem to agree that NO eye contact means No attraction. Just keep in mind that exceptions can apply in this regard.
Eye Contact Basics
One of the things to look out for in public is the double glance. Keep this in mind. Women usually don’t make eye contact with someone two times by accident. She might have made eye contact one time to check you out, but if she looks again this is usually a big indicator that she is interested in you.
Make sure that you hold your gaze.
One of the mistakes many guys do is that they don’t check for this double glance. They think that any simple eye contact from women is a sign to go talk to her.
when a woman makes eye contact with you two times it is one of the sure ways to know that she is attracted to you. Check if she makes prolonged eye contact along with it. If so then this is clear indicator that she is attracted to you. She wants you to come and talk to her.
In busy places like bars and night clubs this is an excellent way to know if someone is interested. In those types of places everyone is making eye contact with each other. They just check out the scene and vibe of other people.
If a woman glances at you one time, it doesn’t always mean that she is interested in you. However, if the girl is interested in you she will look at you again. This can be even true for married women.
The Power of Prolonged Eye Contact
You want to maintain eye contact to create some type of connection. A good practice is to maintain your gaze until she looks away first. Here are the benefits of not breaking eye contact:
Why Eye Contact Establishes Dominance
Dominance is a driving force in attraction. You have to let her know that you are the dominant one through your eye contact. One of the best ways to do this is to not break eye contact first.
Women are very good at not breaking eye contact. If you hold your gaze they will keep up with you most of the time.
Just keep in mind to do it in a natural way. Women usually don’t appreciate intense eye contact with a guy they just see. A good way to do this is to look at her in a confident and sexual way, with a very slight smile. If you do it with full confidence it won’t come off as too creepy. It will actually turn her on. Establishing dominance is one the best reasons for prolonged eye contact.
Eye Contact Can Show Your Interest Level
You want to show the girl that you are interested in her. A great way to give her this feeling is to maintain eye contact with her until she breaks it.
By doing this the ball is in her court to reciprocate a signal that she is interested to. She will either like you, or she won’t. It is good because you will know the answer. This is a great way to see if a woman is interested in you. Show prolonged eye contact with women.